I share the same feelings as you and my imagination is my worst enemy. I also felt somewhat of a doormat when I was there in OK helping her put things in her apartment. I am starting to wonder after the flowers and the 5 hour convo if I should go dark a little bit and not be so quick to answer. At some point I believe they should have to do a little bit of chasing and do some work.
As for your W. She is definitely interested in what you are doing and who you are going out with. This is progress!! Right now keep playing it cool, the question remains how accessible do become for them?
