LL, How long have you been noticeing this laundry issue. SOme men emit in their sleep. My H did from time to time. I took it very personally for some reason. I can't remember if he started doing before or after the A. What is H acting like? Can you see similarities from the previous A? Is there a chance your projecting? I only ask because of that I am the queen. DO you plan on confronting at some point? Rachael