FOBD came on the radio yesterday... song has always been good but I like it more now lol.
This thread needs to be stickied because it is the best example I have found of a specific outline (with a ton of conversation.) Reading how you handled the conversations really explained to me the concepts of *true* validation and I began to understand what I have been doing wrong. DB'ing and acting "as if" seemed so hard to me but knowing that you are going through the same crap that I am and are able to do it with such immediate positive results is just great.
I'm in Tulsa fwiw and the weather is AWESOME this weekend. Supposed to snow on Monday though lol.
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