2Step - It sounds to me that sending the flowers went just fine. I think that you and I are in a very precarious stage right now. We need to tread carefully so that we don't scare our W's off. We also need to be careful not to undetach so much that we get knocked back 2 steps with our emotional well being.
If you are like me, you are especially struggling with the patience part of this whole thing right now. The positives that I have seen recently have me wanting things to move more rapidly. We need to exercise patience.
Hang in there man!
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce