sage,

if one were to take that matter into their own hands..well ya'd think they'd try to do it neatly (after all don't most men drown them in the shower? why would you leave it in your drawers???

and looking? I do the laundry...noticed...so decided to keep an eye on it...

and thirdly..wtf take it in to your own hands and deny your w the right to do it for you????

LL