I feel for you sir. I am in similar boat, in house separation until she can find a place. The kids don't know yet.(D5, S4) I want the WAW to tell them but she thinks we should do it together. I guess We will just wait and see until that happens. My W too is acting like a reborn teenager, running around like she has no responsibilities. We must stay stong and positive for our kids. I feel dead inside, hoping you havent had to relive the hurt since she moved out. Stay positive-it not all our fault. I hope our W's snap out of it and realize what they are missing out on. If not, they may live long, empty lives, knowing what they left.