The divorce atty. I hired called it a" legal divorce". He'd never heard of anyone who was getting a divorced sleeping in the same bed as the person they're divorcing.
I want him to marry me. Neither of us has had an affair of any kind. We live together, sleep together. Certainly there's hope?
We seems to be in a pattern that suits HIM. It's like we're married, except that he had his own money, and he must feel "free" even though he's not, really.
Since my son's illness has nearly resolved, I want to move forward--with everything life has to offer
I didn't realize that divorced meant "no leeway". I do think we have a lot going for us. He tells me he loved me (often before I tell him) and we've not had affairs, etc.
I'm feeling like he's just going to keep pushing/pulling. We get close and are kind to one another, then he'll pull away,
Do I need to do 180s? I guess he's a WAS who hasn't WA. Sorta like he's getting the milk, so why bother to get married/get the cow, KWIM?
