2step,
Have another "adult beverage" for me, but please don't punch anything! HA! laugh

I am bit behind, but I am just now catching up on your sitch. Yes, some good, some bad. Your progress still looks promising, but I think the flowers could have been a bit too much. Hey, it was a slip up and nothing more. Believe me, I have the www.ftd.com on my favorites and I look at it all the time. But, I know what will happen if I jump the gun. I am now declaring myself the understudy for you and Denver. You both seem to be a bit further down the road than I am, so I will be watching.

Hey, make this weekend a great weekend. Be there for your D and her happy day. Go out, do something for you and don't look back. If she calls or contacts, lay low. Give the situation some room to breath. Yes, I know that will be difficult considering it is fun to start reconnecting. Look at it this way... Have you ever varnished and lacquered a piece of furniture? If you do it right, you will end up with the most beautiful piece of furniture you have ever seen because the work will have been yours. But, if you rush it and don't let the varnish dry properly, or if you try to handle the piece before the lacquer is dry, you will end up with perfections in the piece. For the rest of your days, every time you look at that piece you will see the imperfections and it will annoy you. Your R is now that piece of unfinished furniture. Take some time, let the layers dry and harden and then move forward. You will be so proud of your work when it is finished!!

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD


Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...