he didn't mention the date. WTH? I guess I can share info with him, but he can hold it hostage?
That seems to be the way it goes. It reminds me of the way my H talks to D's. Tends to be superficial and even when he broche's the tough stuff with D15, it's like he's inviting himself into their lives without inviting them into his. I think he's afraid (not really the right word, just can't hink of a better one right now) it will get back to me.
It's good that you see the opportunity here. It took me awhile , but I finally got there.