I think that is a great idea. Just put it in a box. Then do something for yourself. My anniversary is on v-day too. I think my kids are going to be more upset than I am. But I have no intentions of doing anything for my H on this dreaded day!
Good luck and big hugs!
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007