Thanks for you taking the time to reply. Ya know, I totally agree with you and Denver. I really lost myself after my mom passed and with therapy, I did find myself again; the girl he fell in love with is back. It's a shame that he can't see it. He really has totally checked out and at this juncture I do believe there may be an OW. He had put on his FB the week he served me that he wanted one of his friends "to meet the love of his life." Whatever dude!
This forum and you all, my forum family keep me on the path that I worked so hard to get to because what I was doing wasn't working and I cannot and will not revert back to that place. Do I faulter, yes, but I feel I can regroup much faster.
I'm not sure what DB methods I can apply at this juncture. I def want to try to be friends. I mean that's what we were before we became lovers, the H and W. I am VERY willing to start from that point so he can possibly build his trust in me again and see that my actions do support my words now.
I'm sorry grr that you have found yourself here again. I appreciate your support and I hope I can return the favor.
HUGS - ZG
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
