Even though today is tough, I hope that you find some joy and peace.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I'm happy for yall that on today when it means the most...your H step up to the plate and yall were a family!
I'm proud of you girl! Your doing it...Your H is still there in the home...That's the best news...that you can work on DBing everyday and yourself.
I would do anything to turn back time, before H left the house/had affair...so I couldve applied DBing. So, good for you that you are not giving up and giving your everything...
I'm praying for you Hope...Let GOD give you comfort & peace today..
Dixie
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010
I made so many DB mistakes with the XH, the bomb dropped with him moving out (I had no clue), the OW, etc. It was 6 months before I found DB. Every mistake - I made it and then some. So I do understand what everyone is going through. I know how you feel and I know hard it is and I still remember those days vividly. I pray for you every day, Dixie.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
Hope - your story of continued progress warms my heart.
I'm sorry that you are having a bad day in terms of your son. I will say a prayer for him. You do know he's watching over you and that I'm sure gives you some comfort.
Keep up the good work - You are always in my thoughts. You've really helpful to me and I thank you.
HUGS - ZG
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11