You're not here to inspire anyone. You're here to get help. And YES, you are worth fighting for.
EVERYTHING KML AND BOND SAID. If you have joint credit cards, whether there is a balance or not, you can close them. Do that NOW.
I suspected that she is on drugs. Can you stay away from the house? Can you just get your stuff and get out of there???? Listen, you don't know what she is involved in. If there are drugs in that house, you have a problem. Call your lawyer. Find out what kind of trouble you could have there. Tell him/her what you smelled. The last thing you need is a drug charge against you because of her.
ots, please stick with us. Bond and kml are awesome and have been around the block with people a few times. They are great resources.
Please, take care of yourself and keep us updated on how this is going.