Thanks, getting2work. It's remarkable how much more valuable it is to me to hear a vote of confidence from others who are going through the same thing than either to hear that from my dearest friends. I think before I can really believe in happy days in my future, I have to get to WANTING them. Right now, I am so resistant to letting go that I'm sure whether I'd prefer to grieve forever if at least that means the marriage isn't entirely in my past.
What is "going dark since 21/1/11?"
M: 43 H: 44 M: 12.5 if the 5.5 year separation counts Bomb (I dropped it): Dec '07 H said finit: Jun '10 I moved on: May '13
