SD, I see a lot of parallels between your story and mine. Thanks for posting! I like your statement: "I PREFERRED to be married to my H, I COULD SURVIVE JUST FINE without him" and I am feeling like that too, more and more!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
