Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

[grebjack]

Oh, dbmod, "it will be okay" sounds so confident. I wish we all could FEEL that way.

Do you have to distance? The correct answer can't possibly be the same for all of us, can it? People are so different, and my husband fell for ME. I am doing my best to follow the advice in the books, from my coach, etc., but every once in a while I run into something that is just so not me that I decide I just can't go there.

Exciting that she's wearing her rings again!