Okay, I'm assuming you're asking me for an honest opinion. So here goes.
I think he asked you about the dinner thing to be polite because he saw you crying. There were several opportunities where you could have ended things with him, but didn't.
Even when he asked if you if you were going back to work, you should have just told him no, that you had plans. Also, the fact that he came late to begin with was pretty rude.
That alone shows his attitude towards his R towards you. He feels he can come and go as he pleases without any regard to what your plans may be.
But here's the thing. Things can get better! How? By you BEING better. I know it's tough to not get weak in the knees when you see him. But you need to put the emphasis back on you. I have faith in you and that you can do it.
You mentioned that he contacted you after he left. What did he say?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
