The way the D proposal reads H is still very much under the impression that we will be using the same L. H will not be happy. This is H's problem though.
Exactly right; what did he think you would do? I guess either he thought to save some money OR try and get whatever he wants while you have NO say.
You are right to get a lawyer on your own; and if divorce is what he thinks he wants; you make sure you get what's rightfully yours in that process.
All you can do is protect yourself at this point.
I'm sorry this is happening to you.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
