Need advice please!!! Not sure on next move?

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I've been thinking for an hour how to respond about the dinner thing... but I just don't know, Dixie. We can all try to read his mind but wow.... I don't know. My advice is to detach a teeny bit and pretend like he didn't say that. Otherwise, you are going to drive yourself nuts analyzing it and jumping when the phone rings. You're giving him power here.... 1 sentence he may or may not have meant is going to give you an ulcer stressing over. Take back that power, girl! He didn't say it, he didn't say it, he didn't say it. Unless he does call and then you can remember he said it.

I understand the sense of urgency. I did the same thing when I met my XH for lunch for a talk about D after a very long time of no communication. I thought I'd be sick I was so nervous. 3 hours later, talking about everything... still didn't get it all out. Never would have because there were things I thought of years later. So don't feel like you lost your chance to ask a question or talk. There's never going to be a conversation where you achieve magical closure. That's something only time can do.

Hugs. I wish I could say something more positive and definitive to help you through this.

So now... what are your plans? Goals? Pitch black dark, outgoing, LRT?