I WILL Attain my Goals - Personal and M

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I love Sandi's idea!

I don't want to burst your bubble (you know I'm praying for you and want to see you save your M)... but be careful of what an 11-yr-old says. Especially if he loves you and wants you and mommy back together. He could definitely be telling the truth, but please be careful and make any plans, goals, changes on what you see from her only (that includes being careful with what the in-laws say). You're doing so wonderfully, don't push her too hard right now based on what other people say. Make sense?

I agree with everyone else... tread slow. Instead of a red rose, if you're not sure... how about a pink rose? It's not as boldly romantic but still opens the door without pressure. If you do this and she agrees to dinner, treat it like a first date. No pressure, no slipping into old patterns, no expecting even a kiss at the end... but romantic and putting your best foot forward.

I know I'm saying be careful.... but I'm really excited for you!!!! I think you're doing a great job and I think you're doing everything right!!!! Keep it up, Denver!!!!