Andy - Well my H was living with me - we started doing dinners out together and then he would do the occasonial night with the guys to watch football and say he was sleeping over because he didnt want to drink and drive. I was trying to be supportive since he said that was one of the reasons he wanted to seperate because he didnt have any outside life. well my world came crashing down this past Monday. The husband of the wife my husband is having an affiar with called our house and left me a message that they were in a hotel room f'ing. Exact words. Then send me their dirty texts. I called my H who had just called me and told me he loved me and accused him of being in the hotel with this women he denied it - I told him I had proof via the email texts. He begged to come home and told him no. I filed for divorce yesterday. He says he loves me - the affair is over (she works with him) but he doesnt know what he wants and doesnt want to work on the marriage because he doesnt want to hurt me or the family again. I dont want to loose him but I tried all of the seperation and it didnt work. I figure let the realty set in of a divorce and see if then what happens. I cant believe it - I knew it was over another women but he denied and denied. Then to come back home and sleep in my bed - YUCK
