A bump means pushing your post to the top of the list so that it doesn't fall off the first page and into the abyss of non-answers.

So YG.... from what I gather you are already divorced. You've given people no "leeway" here as to how to help you, so I'll bite and ask:

What is it YOU want from the forum? i.e. What do you hope to achieve?

M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
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