Running out of time

[whitneypinch]

Am I standing for my M even though I am divorced?
That is a good question. I guess I am standing for my family and my M is part of that.
Would I reconcile with my W.....yes if our values were in-line. I used to think they were in-line but now that that she has become so self-centered I don't really know.

Sadly Cadet is right and that is really what tears us all apart. You just can't do anything about the situation except work on yourself and your kids.

Goodfight you have to find a way to eliminate most of the negative situations that are around you. It was a good move to block the relatives on FB. The less you have to face the better.

You really have to focus on yourself and your kids and move forward in life.
It took me almost 3 years to get to that point. I am just at the beginning of that point in all of this. It is better but there is still a grey cloud overhead each day.
You will get there, in your own time.

Try not to contact him anymore. He will contact you but be very cool and try not to get sucked back in. It will be one of the hardest things you will ever do.
Soon the emotional roller-coaster pain will outweigh your need to pursue him and you will stop.

You will get there ! I never thought I would but I am just starting to now.
I think it took me so long as I am a child of divorce and I am adopted so clearly I have my own abandonment issues.