Bea - thanks for the suggestion, I didn't read From Abandonment to Healing yet, I'll get a copy. I try not to react in negative way to anything about H & OW that D brings up...taking the high road. But of course she must sense how I feel. The other day she said "Mom you should find a guy" I said I'm not ready for a relationship and she replied "It would make you happier" would it?...told her that I'm still a married woman and wouldn't want to involve anyone in this situation...I have to get my life in order first. A btw OW will walk out of her marriage pretty wealthy...maybe it's my H who is the gold digger...
PEI - thanks for stopping by my fellow countrywoman Your situation must be really hard, that would hurt so much to have OW taking over your family like that...is it getting easier with time?...we do kind of get used to things as we go along no matter how crappy they are...
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remember to DB your kids
thanks so much for that reminder I have to remember to do that more often.
Jack - Bad memory and forgetfulness are also symptoms of depression and hormonal changes...which are part of MLC I guess. Good to know that it could improve
Ilike - sorry I will start a new tread
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Your situation must be really hard, that would hurt so much to have OW taking over your family like that...is it getting easier with time?...we do kind of get used to things as we go along no matter how crappy they are...
