habit, it was a step forward, definitely!
Take what SD posted to heart and follow it. I was pretty lucky in that I didn't have to endure a ton of time - NOT to say I'm out of the woods but still...

It takes different durations for different folks. Look at what you accomplished as a small victory and keep moving ahead. Chances are, the W WILL want to talk more eventually. Keep GAL and detach. She said the convo was good so she will want to do that again - ONLY when she wants to. If you're in her face, she won't want to.

If you away from her, she may.

Dude, it's tough but I can say that you should do the OPPOSITE of what you want to do. I know it doesn't make sense but for some reason, that works.

You are on the right track even if that train is barely moving. It will pick up steam.


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE