momentum is an 8 lettered word and it is nice.

Had a great talk about the R today with W. She's back in the game for sure. We talked a lot about what happened in the last 5 years and the last 2 months especially.

I nailed why she went on her trip exactly. I also nailed what would happen and what did happen. It drove the fact home that I truly know my W. She knows that perfectly too. She even said, nobody knows me like you do.

Now we're making plans on how to keep this train rolling. BOTH of us.

I even got some unsolicited touches today and yesterday.

After giving her the time apart with just the kids last night, she snuck downstairs to cuddle with me. Usually, she would spoon but this time she faced me. Can we say I was a little excited? (NOT that way, you pervs smile ) I can wait for that...

She was very open to my suggestions of date nights, also of getting together once a week to let each other know exactly how we are feeling emotionally. I strongly feel that if everyone did this, we wouldn't be in this sitch.

This is now my goal!!!

Thanks to all for the support. I will continue to post to inspire. You CAN make it happen. Sometimes you have to do what you think is right - because it may just pay you back more than you ever thought.


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE