Okay....I agree w/everyone...tread real slow here....wait it out a bit longer...but, I LOVE the rose idea and a invite to dinner. (could you call my H? LOL) But, I was so excited about what your SS said!!! (I did a little happy dance)
Anyways, I'm still worried for you around the OM. That's why I think you should still proceed w/caution...cause, ya gotta be sure that she is done w/him. But, I do feel that she is moving back towards your way...she is rethinking this Denver!
But, if that door opens ya gott haul a** thru it!!! So, by being patient and carefully listen you will know when its all clear. Just don't let your emotions push ya/what FIL is saying drive ya.
I'm in your corner Denver & Praying for yall!!! Keep up the great work!
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010