Living Like Roomates 2

[Gnosis]

Thanks Gnosis. This is really thought provoking.

You're welcome pal. It was meant to be.

I really need to absorb and process this.

Please do. Take your time there is no rush. When we rush into things we make mistakes. As I said above... weigh the consequences.

I do agree with you that I am fearful of what she may think if I stop doing these things.

In all the people I've helped the very first step is to get them to conquer their fears. Be honest with yourself and be careful.

This is a more aggressive approach then just doing nothing.

You've been doing nothing for 3 months now. I think you have had time to evaluate how effective it has been.

I am going to re-read your response and figure out where I need to go. Many thanks for this.

Sorry, but I just gave you and ColdWinter more to think about.

With that I'd like to add... don't lose the changes you have made for yourself. Part of this process is discovering who you are and who you would like to be.

Punchy you're a heck of a lot stronger than I you think you are. I don't think you're giving yourself enough credit for this. I'd like you to acknowledge this. To suppress yourself, improve yourself and keep on fighting for your M for as long as you have takes a lot of strength. Kudos to you.