There is nothing to give. H wants nothing from me. I said this before. If he could and there were no kids involved I would not see him for dust. H loves his kids...I'm just the caregiver.
You are giving time to your M while he doesn't want it. That is what you are giving.
You are giving respect to your vows that he chooses not to give right now.
Originally Posted By: Scylla
Can you even begin to sustain anything if the other party to that covenant decides to break it?.
Yes you can.
If you choose to do so.
You can do it in spite of what H chooses right now.
That may be the biggest decision you will ever make because I can tell you the truth you find in this will change your life and every person your life touches including your children and your H.
It is very difficult I won't sugar coat it for you.
And most people are not up for the the worst in "for better or worse"
No one can judge you for running. The barn door is open.
This is for you not H so choose wisely
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
