Thanks Cold, this is very helpful. I was feeling very emotional about this last night and was prepared to jump off the ledge and have the R talk. As you suggest, I need to do nothing other than work on myself.
I needed to hear it from someone on the Board that this is the right approach. Everything in mind is telling me that the best approach is to confront. I was looking at some other sites and they recommend full confrontation and full exposure. Pretty scary stuff and most likely a quick path to divorce.
Thanks for the advice and direction. It is very helpful to have the advice from people on this Board before taking action. This is a painful journey, but one that I can get through with support such as yours.
