Thanks for sharing your experience. It really does help me alot. I am giving my H lots of space. He was talking alot more last night, but I know that doesn't necessarily mean anything.
Early this morning I woke up with a severe migraine (stress), call my son and let him know I wouldnt be babysitting today. My H asked me if I needed anything, I told him no. He retest the alarm for another hour so I could rest before getting my D up and ready for her program. He told me if I needed anything to call him. At least this time he isn't cold hearted.