However ..... I would not be in a hurry to give her control over anything. I think just be cautious ... the fact that she's worried you may not love her anymore is good I think. Maybe let her sit in her worry some more. Remember how that worry made you want her back more?
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Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11