Thanks for the comments. Wife has not back tracked from her statement about staying for the kids. However, the last time we discussed the R was back in early December almost 2 months ago.
I agree that OM is meeting her emotional needs. I have offered to go to MC to address my shortcomings in this regard and she has refused. Pretty tough to meet her emotional needs when she has this emotional wall between her and I.
I have thought about the LRT, but in my mind that would look like I was reverting to my old self except for the anger part. Not sure how far to go with this? What is your modified form of the LRT?
In my mind, I am not living in fear. If she wants a Divorce, then I am more tha willing to go down that path. Living like this is painful and I am only doing it for the benefit of my kids. My wife has not even apologized for her EA. I just want to know whats going on so that I can move forward with her either in or out of my life.
