Originally Posted By: 2step
I think some mistakes where made by me in this convo


It seems to me that you feel good when she needs you.

This may be a role you fell into in your M and she allowed to happen.

You fixing things or helping her.

It is not a healthy relationship.

Both parties end up resenting each other.

You are still taking her temperature when you talk to her and pursuing.

That's why you got this:

"NO. I don't want anything from you. I don't want to depend on you. I can do this on my own"

Try to be the opposite of what your mouth wants to say.

Do you see what I am driving at?


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am