Hi, Just want to tell you my story... Ive been married for 26yr, have 5 children, my wife has gone to a refuge for domestic abuse, this is the 4th time in under a year and the 7th time she has left in our marriage. She is there as i have been accused of controling, i have never raised a hand to her and believe me i never would. Im having councilling, my councilor knows me well (been there often enough !!)and has said im not controlling, my kids say the same, im lost. She had one affair 15 years ago and askedto come back, about 6 years ago got friendly with her friends brother, this wasnt an affair she says we only talked and snogged!!. That faded out, 2 years ago she wanted out, big arguement, i told her i couldnt cope with her, she broke down said it was to do with abuse as a child, so she had counciling and all seemed ok. We moved house away from where her father lived, we then after afew months started the controlling thing, this is the forth episode of this, refuge keep taking her back, last week i had a letter to say she has filed for divorce, that was on the same day shecame home for the weekend, that weekend she was loving , cuddly and wanted to make love which we did, she then went on to tell me that she only loved part of me and that she wants the marriage to end, she is trying to get her own place nearer to us all as at the moment the refuge is 60 miles away. We talk on facebook every night, if im late going on there she will text or ring asking where i am. She asks questions like have i a girlfriend yet, have i been out, reminds me that the bit she does love she loves loads, who am i talking to on facebook are they female, shes doing my head in...sorry but i need some help here....Kevc
