2step you've had a great week! Wow. She did pull back exactly as others have said she would. She's got to find for herself if she wants to be with you or not .... and she obviously resents that she was dependent on you.

I'm no expert .... but if I were evaluating myself and I had done the same things ... I'd say that this was quite a lot of pursuit. Seems like you have have put her back in the driver's seat. And she reacted as such. "You're so predictable ... you're going to send me something". I think the trick here is we have to make THEM pursue US. I know my W almost feels like I tricked her or manipulated her into being with me. Whether or not this is true (I don't think so) ... I think these WAWs really think that. Being a Nice Guy ... hoping for something in return ... that's not being the kind of man that they would throw their panties at.


But WOW, you've had some amazing progress here. I'm so proud of you. No, don't scare this little confused deer away. Let her come take the food from your hand ... don't run after her throwing it :-)


BITS!!!!!!!!!!!


B.I.T.S

Formerly known as onStepAtATime
Me:31 W:31
T:13 yrs M:8 yrs
D: 20 months
ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10
"I want a separation" 1/05/11