Thanks Sandi, Bond, and grr. All of that advice helps a lot. I am going to proceed with a lot of caution for the time being. I need to continue to be patient.

I will see how things go over the next week before I decide on what to do with vday. That's going to be a tough call. I don't want to let the day, and potentially an opportunity, pass without doing anything. But I also don't want to ruin the progress that I've made up to this point.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce