Thanks Sandi, Bond, and grr. All of that advice helps a lot. I am going to proceed with a lot of caution for the time being. I need to continue to be patient.
I will see how things go over the next week before I decide on what to do with vday. That's going to be a tough call. I don't want to let the day, and potentially an opportunity, pass without doing anything. But I also don't want to ruin the progress that I've made up to this point.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce