LL, I have to tell you that if I were in your shoes, I would probably be locked up in a sanitorium...I'm talking about how I really cannot begin to understand how it is with wee children. depends on what type of support system you have...but for the most part...kiss your right to nap or have your own time good bye for at least several years...oh ya and the sense of guilt when you do take time off during the day to just do your own thing.