So W was feeling really down today so I sent her a text after the convo
M "I'm sorry you are having a rough day. I know it will work out for u, just keep smiling cause your smile is contagious. The sun will come out tomorrow"
W "thank you"
About 20 minutes later
W "Thanks for listening"
M ":) It's my pleasure. Thank you for trusting me enough to share. What's the name of your company?"
W "Name in Ponca right now....Name in blackwell in Feb"
W "why u ask?" no response from me
W "??"
M ":) just wondering"
W "Why? What r u planning?"
M "LOL nothing"
W "I don't believe u"
M "LOL so skeptical"
W "yes I am"
M "Lol rightfully so...."
W "I'm feeling a little better...I'm out doing field work. I hate my job;but at least it gets me out of the office"
M "Oh good the weather is nice so it gives u some fresh air. Will you be out all day?"
W "No not all day just for a bit"
M "Be careful people don't like the debt collector! lol"
W "I will lol"
A few more minutes pass and then this
W "ur so predictable...Now anyways....lol"
M "How do u mean?"
W "I could be off...but r u thining of sending something to cheer me up?"
M "Have a good day at work! :)"
W "lol thanks you too"
I sent her flowers today. I know I know it's pursuing! Hey I am a rookie at this to!!
Ok 2Step, I'm going to wait and see how this flower sending thing works out for you before I make any such attempt! Thanks for being the Guinea Pig!!
Seriously though, watch your step (no pun intended) here. Things are going well for you, but you could scare her away. You've heard the Squirrel analogy right? Think I saw on TrueGrit's thread from way back. Just proceed with caution and don't throw DB principles out the window.
You and me both need to follow the above advice.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
