I agree men are thick as bricks.

I have the most amazing wife in the world and now that I am threatened with divorce I am DOING everything I can imagine to try and save our marriage.

What finally got through to me was that I knew she was for real in demanding something better for herself.

She was (god help me IS) willing to walk away and that is now painfully clear.

I pray that my efforts here will win her back.
If you truly love him, don't give up on him...

But even more importantly, if you truly love yourself, for heaven's sake hold that higher standard.

I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?