She kept messaging me through Facebook so mean and out right evil, but I just kept replying with nice messages even though I wanted to tell her where to go. I kept thinking my M is involved and she wasn't worth ruining how close me and H have come for her to get me to the point of telling her off and H blaming me for it again.
H and I are not friends on Facebook either but I copied all the messages she sent me and what I sent her in reply because I know her all to well, she will never change and just has H brainwashed into thinking she has and that she loves and cares for him. And I didn't want her to lie to him and I'm sure she tried and said I was the rotten person and so on. One statement that got to me was she said that they would never let me in their lives again and take a chance of being hurt again.
I'm wondering now if H has been being told this for the last year and a half since he started talking to them again. So that is what he is afraid of, me hurting him because we have both hurt each other during our M. I never ever did anything wrong to his family at all, and she is claiming that I kept H away from them and she hopes my children grow up fall maddly in love and that person takes them away from me for over 10 years. I was like what????? I don't control H, and he is the one that wanted nothing to do with them and I even would tell him that he should make amends cause you never know how long anyone has and he always refused.
My heart is so broken everyone, not just by H but also by the lies the sister is telling and the mean and awful things she said to me. I always took things to heart since I was a child and still do and I can't change that, so right now I feel like I'm actually losing it. How can H do this to me and the kids?
