I am really struggling trying to detach, trying to implement LRT. I stopped calling my wife during the day, and now she is calling me all of the time, conversations to "check and see if I am safe" while I was out plowing snow yesterday. All of the sudden her wedding rings are back on this morning, I don't want to read too much into this, put, if she is trying to pull closer, what do you do? I don't want to start ignoring her phone calls, but am I doing this wrong if I don't distance?


Me-43,W-41
Married 18 years
Together 20 years
S12, S13
Wife EA - 3-2009
Reconciled
WAW-9-2009
Reconciled again 2-2010
Bomb- 12/30/2010
Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011
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