Called the wife late yesterday afternoon to chat about after work activities re the kids etc. Wife said she couldn't talk because she was under a time crunch to get a report submitted.
Found out later that although she didn't have time to talk with me, she did have time to go out for coffee (just prior to me calling)with the OM. This is difficult to take on a couple of fronts:
1) The fact that she continues to see the OM 2) No update from her as to the status of our relationship 3) She makes time for the OM even when she doesn't have the time
I would like to confront her on this, but am not sure what the impact would be. Is this the quick path to divorce? Should I just hang back and hope that their flame dies out?
When I initially confronted her about the EA, she told me that she was not going to have any contact with the OM until she made up her mind as to whether she was going to stay or leave. Either she lied, (very likely) or she has made up her mind and has not told me.
Any advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated.
