hi ruikee i'm so sorry you are back here....but if you did it twice then maybe the third times a charm? i hope so the hardest thing is the kids we have a nine year old son who loves nothing more than to be with both of us and give "family hugs" heartbreaking some people say children are not a good enough reason, but i think, unless there is abuse, children are a perfectly valid reason for leaving no stone unturned when trying to fix things my husband is leaving for a week on the road and i'm scared that he is going to act like a single guy (although he tells me this is not about that) i just feel like when he returns home things will have progressed for him and he will have moved on further ruikee, i will read about your sitch and thanks for the support i hope you have a great day
