I think a part of you knew that she wasn't going to call last night. She was going to retreat and you really need to expect this, ok? If she does have this DB call with you and if it does go well, she is still going to retreat afterwards. This is why I want you to talk to the DB coach alone so you know what to expect. It is so important that you keep your great attitude and not ride the next roller coaster with her, because she is definitely going to go for a ride.
Truegritter is right about just staying cool. That should be easy, because you are cool Also, I agree watch the pressure, ok? That is so hard sometimes, I know. We want validation and security. But that can kill everything. My sitch was not bad at the beginning but because I sought validation and security, I killed it all. So don't be me!!!
You are doing awesome, though. And I still think you need to take some time to be happy about that.