after a little more than a year i am back

[Ruikee]

Hi Grr, havent been on here in a while, but i successfully DBd with my wife twice but am here again. Same thing with me, backslid into my old ways. Of course i try not to beat myself up over it as most people say, both people do play a part. Hardest thing now is we have a 23 month old boy. I think of him everyday. When i ask for extra time, i am accused of being selfish. Which i really do not understand. But just keep working on yourself is really all you can do and like you said once you change, keep monitor those changes so you do not backslide as you said....