I never thought I'd have to protect myself from H as we've always protected each other. Right now, H seems to be out for himself as the D settlement papers indicate. They came in the mail yesterday and I definitely need a lot of questions answered.
If I find out what he's proposing is fair, I'll back off and he'll have his D. If it's not, then I'll get as close to fair as I can.
I agree that I'll be happy without him, but I'll always carry him in my heart. He can't take that away from me.