PEI is totally right. It's over when it's over and not any sooner. And that's just the WAS's side of things. You of course have an agenda all your own. I think the hardest thing for me to come to terms with is the fact that the timeline is much longer than I wanted/anticipated and that it is entirely and completely out of my control. The only thing in my control is how I react to all of it and what I choose to do with the life I have left in front of me...
Great. I cannot tell you how discouraged and defeated this makes me feel. Should I just give up trying to save my marriage? Friend of mine said it was over, perhaps she was right, and I'm just spinning my wheels.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
