H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[Mila]

Thank you Bea, Antonia, Cyrena and Being

Bea -

in MLC they become the opposite in every way

I did hear that as well. Some of the personality changes are just shocking....and your H forgetting his second language???? Wow...

Antonia - Ever since this all started my H is very forgetful...sometimes selectively...his memory is pretty bad...and he is actually aware of if...occasionally. Maybe this all has to do with the "rewriting of history" as well?

And thanks for your suggestion to talk to a male friend...I did actually...his advice "Have that darn SA signed before he stops feeling guilty"

Cyrena - Very good post about how the MLC brain works....so spot on...I did read that somewhere as well....explains so much doesn't it...

Being - you are right I have put a lot into this business...20 years to be precise...and I may be out of it just like that....working for peanuts for somebody else....that's just not right.

Had a very nice dinner with D, told me few things about what H's plans are...

Said that OW is soon moving back to this town...I said really without her kids? D said no her H and kids are in the other town only temporarily and they will move back. Well not according to her H...he told me he is not planning to move back. So what's the plan B here for the two lovebirds, fly back and forth forever?

H also told D that when OW moves back they will buy a house and D can live a week with them and week with me....great. I asked and you would like that? She said it would be OK, I would see dad more. I said what about the OW, you would be OK living there? D said "she is nice to me"....then she quickly added "I know she is not nice for what she did to you"

I would hate OW forming a relationship with my D...but there is nothing I can do if it comes to that...