There are no strict DB rules. When you see a window, you are going to have to determine if the time is right to engage.
I would say you should not go overboard with the positive response. Let her slowly come to you and show her that it's safe for her to do so.
Bond - thanks for weighing in. I think your words are great advice! Kind of like getting a squirrel to come over to me, right? No sudden movements!
So far so good!
I also want to say thanks to everyone for taking the time to read my thread every night. It means so much to have all of your support. I don't provide nearly the amount of info to my friends and family that I do on this board. Simply bc it is you all that understand... that have come closest to walking in my shoes.
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