Originally Posted By: MrBond
There are no strict DB rules. When you see a window, you are going to have to determine if the time is right to engage.

I would say you should not go overboard with the positive response. Let her slowly come to you and show her that it's safe for her to do so.


Bond - thanks for weighing in. I think your words are great advice! Kind of like getting a squirrel to come over to me, right? No sudden movements!

So far so good!

I also want to say thanks to everyone for taking the time to read my thread every night. It means so much to have all of your support. I don't provide nearly the amount of info to my friends and family that I do on this board. Simply bc it is you all that understand... that have come closest to walking in my shoes.

BITS!!
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce